This Independence Day, I didn’t watch the fireworks. I crawled into bed with my pups and put on meditation music for dogs (link included below.) It actually worked! Boris, who just the night before was shaking the bed with his nerves, calmed down after only a few minutes. I must admit they had some assistance from a little puppy-safe catnip called PuppyJawana. I turned the volume up just enough to blend the booms with the music. So, we didn’t miss out. We tuned in to calm and peaceful gratitude. And for the first time, I didn’t feel jealous that I couldn’t watch the fireworks. There was no place I’d rather be, and I honored my boundaries. That’s something worth celebrating! Sometimes the most freeing thing I can do is say no to what hurts me even if it's something I want.

For so long, I believed I had no willpower to do what was best for me. I thought I was just weak and unable to resist what I wanted in the moment. But through sobriety, stroke recovery, and everyday surrender to chronic pain, I’ve realized I don’t need willpower. I need consistent willingness to do the next right thing in front of me. What looks like strength from the outside isn’t superhuman effort. It’s just one step at a time over and over again. Some days, my “wanter” and the next right thing align, and those days feel like gratitude. But even when they don’t align, I can pause, make healthy choices, and keep my eyes on the horizon without tripping over the pebbles right in front of me. That’s not willpower. That’s freedom of choice not blurred by addiction.

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