Your wife shuts down when you open up.
She pulls away when things get close.
You feel like you’re always chasing her attention.

And now you’re asking:
“Is this what love is supposed to feel like?”

In this episode of The Secure Husband Podcast, we explain why emotionally secure men stop chasing women who are avoidant and unavailable — and what to do if you're stuck in that cycle.

You’ll learn:
✅ What avoidant attachment looks like in marriage
✅ Why insecure men feel drawn to distant women
✅ How to stop chasing emotional crumbs
✅ What secure men expect from their wives
✅ Why emotional numbness is not strength
✅ How to lead with boundaries, not begging

Here’s what we cover step-by-step:

Spot the signs of avoidant attachment

Notice how you’re chasing emotional distance

Stop mistaking emotional shutdown for strength

Heal the part of you that feels addicted to earning love

Understand why secure men walk away from these patterns

Build a life where connection is mutual and safe

This video is for you if:
✔️ Your wife avoids hard conversations
✔️ You feel like the problem — no matter how hard you try
✔️ You give your all, but get little back
✔️ You want peace, clarity, and emotional connection

The truth is simple:
Secure men don’t stay in relationships where they feel unseen, unheard, and unloved.
They don’t chase.
They don’t beg.
They lead — with calm, truth, and peace.

If you struggle with life, marriage and relationships and are ready to thrive,check out the resources from Certified Professional Coach Bruce Abbott at https://SecureHusband.com.

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